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For Anyone Who Feels Lost In Life.

navid bakhshayesh
For Anyone Who Feels Lost In Life.

It's very important to sit down and have an honest conversation with yourself about the type of life you want to lead and what things will personally fulfil you. This will be different to everyone, so STOP looking at Instagram at other peoples life and think that 'wow they have such an incredible life'...You never know what goes on behind close doors and everyones journey is personal...Take it from me, high level influencers with millions of followers are very business oriented and not everything they is true to life. Engagement is king for them. 

Understanding that everyones notion of success subjective is crucial and essential for your mental health. Stay away from social media if you need too. Someone else's journey in life has nothing to do with you and you don't know what goes on behind close doors. Don't ever be jealous, only focus on improving yourself. To envy someone without being inspired by them is a waste of mental energy. Mental energy that could have been used to push yourself in the direction of your dreams.  

Don't chase a goal based on the validation that you might get from others. To do something based on vain glory only keeps you a prison of someone else's opinion. Why would work so hard on yourself for someone else...Use proving people wrong as temporary fuel but do not make that the foundation on which you build yourself and your vision. Once you attain it you will feel empty and unfulfilled.

It is okay if you don't know what it is you want to do. Some of the most successful people on the planet found out later in life. Take a look at this...


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You must make an effort to be micro goal oriented. Progressing forward each day, 1 per cent at a time with the knowledge that each thing you do has a ripple effect in your life, that will lead to a more complete and better version of yourself.

I'm not saying go on a SELF HELP rampage but I am saying focus on trying new things. Speaking to someone who disagrees with you and sees the world differently. Put yourself in a situation you have never been before and see how your mind reacts and responds. Volunteer for a cause that you knew nothing about. Expand your perspective... 

Take up a new language, learn how to play the guitar, do a course in coding. You don't need to go into these things guns blazing that you will be the best. Just try it...don't take it seriously until you need to. I speak for myself here but I always remember when I was younger and not starting new things because I thought I needed to be the best in it or that it required all of my time. 

SIMPLY NOT TRUE...

Sometimes the answer will come to you when you least expect it. So don't think too much an don't spend too long worrying about it.

One thing you should not have is time anxiety. It is never ever too late to start...


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